Where do I see myself in 10 years

 Since I don’t know what I want to do with my life, I cannot say for sure where I see myself. 

However, I do want to be financially stable but not rich or crazy wealthy because then people will be watching me and I don’t want that. 

I just don’t want have to worry about money like that and I want to know that if I lost my job or something happened I would be able to survive without freaking out because I can’t feed my kids or something. Because that is stress. 

Like I see some of the mums and dads out there and they work so hard for their kids and obviously, I want to work hard for my family but like not so hard that it causes health problems.

So yeah I want to be stable with that. Then I want to have a house. After the ten years not before. Like I don’t want to buy a house until I settle down because what is the point. It is just going to be me. So unless I have children or whatever. I don’t want a house yet.

I don’t care what car I have. Like I would like a nice one. But they are costly, and if I live in a big city then I don’t see the use of a car. 

Although, if I leave the city then I will get a car. To like get around but when living in a city you have a lot of travel options so having a car might not be worth it. But it is expensive as an adult so maybe it will be cheaper. In that case, I will buy a cheap one because I don’t see the use of getting a nice car yet. Unless I have kids. Because it will just be myself that I will have to worry about.

I don’t want children till around 30 and I know that it is a weird age but I want to make sure I have done everything I want and that I am ready for them because having children is long like very long and they stay for a long time too.

I also want to be at a point that I am in complete control of my life. Like you have to understand that I am female which has its own problems. Then I am of colour which has an extra set of problems including the standard weirdos that are just trying you all the time. Sooooo control would be nice. Just to be able to like work maybe half of the week and spend the rest of the week with my family.

 Also holidays. I love travelling. I am lucky enough that my parents can afford to take us on holidays and I love it so being able to take myself and my family on holidays would be great too. Like even if it is once every two or three years.

The final thing and most important thing for me is happiness. I want to be happy and part of being happy, I think, involves understanding mental health. 

But this is obviously before I have even started my journey so most of it may be far fetched but that’s like the foundation.

Let me know…

Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

Or 

What your plan is?